Conflicts
See, 4 months ago, I was asked if I wished to go on a road trip ... oh, about right now. Sometime during this month. "Sure, I don't have any other plans" I said. And tis was true, I had nothing planned. But you know what, stuff happens.
1) My car, which I recently got through a deal with my mom's freind... has a major problem that'll take days to fix and cost $1400 usd, estmated. Now, having gotten ths GREAT deal through a freind, we figure, hey, what the f*ck? So when my mom returns (roughly next Saturday), they're going to have a good ... discussion. So much for getting great deals through your fellow church goers huh?
2) Girlfriend. Yeah, that happened. And I love it. Thing is, she was going to visit LA from the 23rd to the 5th of the next month. That plan has ... gone through some changes, but it's essentially the same. Except I'm going to visit her from the 22nd to the 30th or so, then we're going to stay at her aunt's house in LA for the rest of the trip. (Also, this plan is still just a plan. Her mom needs to OK me staying over, or I'll have to stay at a hotel for 7 nights, and that's not cheap, ouch).
3) I was not informed (at any point, whatsoever) that anyone, other than me, had any schedule or timeframe they needed to have things done by. So, having asked, they said it was pretty free form, and so I figured, ok, the road trip can (and we discussed this as a possibilty) go to San Fransisco, then stop by Las Vegas to pick her up, then go to LA and everything will be great!... except for the fact that, I was told on friday, that One friend needs to be in San Fransisco on the 24th. And that's not ... well, that conflicts.
Vegas 23rd... San Fransisco 24th. They're not planning to go to Vegas first, and we (Tasha and I) were not planning on this either. Also, it wasn't until Thursday, that I was given a green light from Tasha, that she could take time off of work, to visit. So THAT was all in the 'maybe' zone for a long time also. There were a lot of "maybe"s in the course of this plan... of course, nobody was really planning anything, and I expect that something this big (trip that would last to a week, give or take) would have SOME sort of planning other than "Lets go, and see what's on the way". Road trip, I can understand, but we're some kids without responsibilities. One had to be in San Fransisco the 24th, I needed to know that, in order to form a better schedule with others. I have a freind flying in from Alabama this week, I would like to meet her, if possible. I wasn't informed of any time frame this had to be completed, and yet I was expected to leave at any time.
Well, I do have responsibilities. I need to be more careful about money because fixing up my car is NOT going to be cheap. Also, having no JOB now and my next paycheck comes in ... oh, I don't know.. I really don't. The last project's final week's paycheck (about 3 weeks ago) has yet to make it's way to my pocket. And the project I just finished doesn't pay until 30 days after the final working day. So I've been a bit stressed lately, money issues, Anime Expo (July 1st~4th, Anaheim Convention Center).
I've not been neglecting the blog on purpose, but I felt that, blogging for days straight about the same problems (ie: waiting for the answer to appear) would be ... well, bad, and leaning towards emo. So I'd rather wait for a meaningful post, that wasn't just 3 lines long (and yes, I am a bit ashamed at my post quality as of late, *begs for forgiveness*).
Having said all this, I've been in a mixed mood, filled with happy and sad, worry and hope. It's got great potential, (the situation, that is), but also, could flop like mad. Hopefully it all turns out for the better, and that I could go on and post my fun little posts as usual. Having nearly come to a conclusive end to a verse in this chapter of my daily shenanagins, I'm feeling pretty good. All she needs to find out is if I can stay over at her house, and I need to find out if I can borrow my mom's car for a couple of days... And if she says no, well damn, I'm taking it anyways, She'll understand. I did just replace 2 of her tires that cost me $260 USD this morning. Oh, yeah, forgot to mention that, heh.
Very Yin and Yang these past few days.
On a side note, Wierd Al did his own rendition of "You're Beautiful", as "You're Pitiful". He was given the 'ok', but after he finished it, with the intention of releasing it on his new album (yes, a new one :D) they said "uhh...no, you can't release it." So, being the generous guy that he is, he said "Well fine then," and proceeded to upload it to a dozen or so sites, and gave it out for free.
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posted by Anifanatic @ 12:15 AM
8 Comments:
geeez
I hope the actual vacation goes ok. God knows there was enough trouble planning it!
Thanks haha
Update: I can't stay with her, but I'm staying at a local hotel that rents out weeks at a time, so 6 nights only $200...ish, not a bad deal. Her mom wouldn't let her stay at my place so we're staying in Vegas (doubt she'll let us stay together, they gave her a lecture last night about how getting pregnant is bad, and 'why are you so willing to waste your life'? and all that brainwashing. =/ they're really (and by they, I mean her mom) overprotective of her).
Anyways, I hope it goes ok too. xD Now, it looks like I'm leaving Thursday (22nd), coming back on, or sometime before the 29th. Hopefully she lets her stay over at my house that night or two before the 30th, when she's suppose to stay at her aunts. We're only going to 1 or 2 days of Anime Expo, so that leaves us 4 or so days of 'us' time away from her folks (mostly her mom).
:D <3
She should tell her mom that there are things called CONTRACEPTIVES to prevent pregnancy?
Just assure her mom that she'll use double protection!!! No, not you using TWO condoms at a time, silly, but condoms and pills? =P That should be safe enough. =)
But we haven't! We won't! Not yet... I don't think we will... Hmm >_>: but it's not like we're itching for some *bowchikabowwow* or anything, they're convinced that it's purely physical, and that I'm going to drop her after I "get what I want" from her. =( <3
Wait.
How old is she?
If she's above 18, tell her mom to get over it already. Better she's in a functional relationship with a nice man like you, than having a pimp, roaming the strip and huffing turpentine.
btw: bowchicawowow KILLED me. My cheeks ache from laughing so much.
It's hard to argue with your mother when you have already tried to and live in the same household as her. It's not as easy as it sounds and she has tried this before.
Both Tasha and BC are doing the best they can to see each other, and that's all that matters.
Good luck both of you. <3
-AM
monika: She is of age, and I'm always happy to give out smiles <3
AM: <333 I'm very thankful for your response :hugs: <3 I know you, of all people, can understand the situation better than most, thank you <3
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